The Lajjitaadi Avashtas are a technique described by the ancient sage Brihat Parashara Hora Shastra to indicate the different emotional states that become activated at various times throughout your life according to what Mahadasha or time cycle you are currently running. Avashta is Sanskrit for the “state of” and the Lajjitaadi Avashtas reflect to us how we feel by the positions of the planets in the chart based on what their relationships are. Each planet represents an aspect of the human experience and some are friends and some enemies to each other. Enemies can be thought of as two parts of yourself that have conflicting agendas that end up creating internal conflict. The avashtas can be thought of as a very complex personality theory. In this article, I will discuss only one avashta because it is one of the most common and complex in how it presents differently depending on other factors and the rest of the chart. Everything must always be considered in regards to the whole but for the sake of trying to understand, we must break it down and simplify it.
Kshodhita means “starved”, and when we are starved for something, we tend to act in desperate ways to fulfill ourselves. The Sun represents our soul and its role is to co-create our lives out of inspiration. Saturn’s job is to survive and keep our physical body alive. Our ego is part of that physical form, so when the Sun starves Saturn there becomes too much of a focus on preserving the ego (which is an illusion). As Ernst Wilhelm describes, “The Sun starving Saturn reveals that the individual identifies with that which they are not and that which they do not have. Identifying with that which one is not, is to be identified with one’s weaknesses, to be identified with that which is not perfect in the individual. The normal human condition is to possess weaknesses, this is one half of what makes us different from others – what makes us individuals. There is nothing wrong with having weaknesses, however, the person who identifies with these weaknesses, seeing these weaknesses as who they are, can only suffer, and only cause others to suffer as well. Suffering will come in the form of jealousy, haughty behavior, arrogance or timidity. All of these will have the same effect of there being a lack of creative freedom without which the individual cannot create an inspired destiny. The results of this are slavery to more creative individual’s or slavery to one’s own petty conflicts.” – (The Heart of Parahshara Astrology).
So what does it mean to be identified with your weaknesses? It can look like very different behaviors but the root goal is still the same = ego validation. Sometimes it may present as a person who cannot accept that they made a mistake and so must project blame onto others. They would rather continue to make the same mistake than admit they were wrong and change course. It may also manifest in the opposite way as an unreasonable focus on what’s “wrong”, making the weaknesses and faults a central part of their personality. In psychology, we would likely discover that this trait developed from authoritarian parents. Astrology allows us a different view- that we were born to experience this. In the extreme cases, disorders occur, and many people become caught up in the correctional systems of society because of the resistance to accept blame or responsibility. They refuse to accept help in changing their behavior, even when help is made available.
Others with this avashta may know that they have made a mistake but cannot bear to discuss or admit it and so they avoid and engage in unhealthy behaviors to validate their ego like chronic infidelity or addiction. A person identified with their weaknesses may be vulnerable to any person who shows them attention and can lead to unhealthy expressions of sexuality. Sexual pathology can be seen sometimes with this aspect because the person is overly identified with the physical body (Saturn) and can come to crave the power they perceive in the sexual union. They cannot create their inspired full life’s potential because they are too busy trying to validate their ego through their sexual conquests. Another way that this can manifest is through projection. A person could be identified with their weaknesses so that it motivates them to be attracted to people who they see as having the traits they believe themselves to be lacking. In this scenario it could become healthy if the projected trait is eventually reclaimed and integrated, but not when the person continues to only see the trait in the “other” as this creates feelings of lack that lead to suffering.
The differences in expression and behavior depend on whether Sun/Saturn are conjunct, in the same sign, or aspecting each other, and the strength and dignity of the planets. Also a factor is the quality of Mars which is the will. When faced with a truth the ego doesn’t want to accept, the fight or flight response is activated and the state of Mars indicates whether the person will fight to prove their truth or simply withdraw and avoid the conflict and get their validation elsewhere. Some may fluctuate between the two styles. These could all be viewed as different problems, but through the lens of the avashtas, we see they all have the same root of Saturn starvation.
So, what can be done? First, as with all problems, the issue must be identified and agreed upon. The beginning step would be to begin taking the recommended Bach Flower Remedy in order to remove any energetic blocks to healthy self-esteem. This would be used in conjunction with counseling and the person would have to be willing to work on themselves. In the cases where there is aggression and denial of responsibility, therapy would focus on building that initial rapport. There will be no further progress without this base relationship to work from. For the very extreme cases, as seen in traditional narcissistic personality disorder, the ego is very fragile and the narcissistic shell is vital to the ego’s survival and will be protected at all costs. Usually the work includes long-term psychodynamic therapy which can create the safe environment to do the difficult work. It takes a lot of building trust and mutual respect and finding ways to encourage the ability to admit small mistakes. Therapy essentially “re-parents” the inner child in a way that is validating and emotionally safe (usually not what they received in childhood). Therapy would also focus on gaining insight and empathy. A healthy spiritual practice of some kind is usually encouraged.
For the strong Mars, interpersonal skills in the form of assertiveness training would be helpful to reduce aggression and to communicate clearly while tolerating the impulse to “fight”. In the cases where the person has a weak Mars, assertiveness training would be helpful to learn to speak their truth, tolerate the impulse for “flight”, and engage in connection with the person they are avoiding so they can come to experience vulnerability as less terrifying. The therapist should assist the person in examining the coping mechanism of projection and how it plays out in their experience and prevents them from seeing aspects and qualities in themselves. This can also be called “shadow work” as the shadow is what we repress and do not allow ourselves to “see”. The chart should then be consulted again, and the positive avashtas should be identified and through guidance and practice, the person can learn to use those positive avashtas and not focus on their weaknesses. Learning forgiveness and self-compassion are also central pieces to healing. It is not an easy process and many will never take the journey, but they will also likely continue to be unfulfilled in their lives….